Personalized Memorial Services
I will work with you to create personalized memorial services for those who may be spiritual, not religious; for those preferring a secular service; for those unaffiliated with a congregation; and for interfaith families and communities.
A Celebration of Life
It is a privilege to work with you to create a celebration of life for the one who has died, honoring their beliefs and wishes, while discerning and respecting the needs of family and friends.
Thirty Years of Experience
I bring thirty years experience and sensitivity creating interfaith services and skill in respectfully blending traditions to create meaningful memorial services.
What Clients Have Said:
- You have given us words for death and dying that help us make meaning from our losses.
- You have given us words for death and dying that help us make meaning from our losses. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You have eased my pain on a spiritual level.
- I am actively visualizing [my husband] as an integrated soul, caring for himself.
- Many people have told me how helpful your [service] was, in that you framed his suicide in a non-judgmental and non-blaming manner (avoiding guilt), while respecting him and focusing on his strengths. They have used terms like powerful, impressive, wise, etc., in describing how they viewed you.
- Thank you from the depth of my heart. You have eased my pain on a spiritual level. I am actively visualizing [my husband] as an integrated soul, caring for himself. Many people have told me how helpful your [service] was, in that you framed his suicide in a non-judgmental and non-blaming manner (avoiding guilt), while respecting him and focusing on his strengths. They have used terms like powerful, impressive, wise, etc., in describing how they viewed you.
- When I watched you conduct the funerals for [two friends], I said, ‘Well, Mary will do that for me’.
- I’ll take this opportunity to tell you how deeply I was affected by your words and spirit at [my friend’s] memorial. The thoughts you shared regarding living and dying were so very special! We could benefit from hearing them more often – not just on the occasion of death.
- You offered the perfect space/container/presence for me when I was preparing to lead the memorial service for my friend. Your words and your kindness were real anchors for me as I moved through that tumultuous time. Thank you.
- Thank you for your wisdom, guidance, and leadership… I knew we would be in compassionate and informed hands. Many people told me it was one of the most beautiful services they had ever been to. You gave equal amounts of guidance, encouragement and freedom to those attending. My R.C. in-laws were particularly blown away – they are used to something very different.
- Thank you for being part of Mom’s precious service. It felt just right to me. It was personal, inclusive and very beautiful.
- Almost a year has passed since our daughter died of cancer. I have read and reread the passages of your [script]. I love your beautiful writing – the use of prayers and poetry. There is so much wisdom!! Best of all, I thank you for the descriptions of her. They are just beautiful – and true. Thank you for a lovely service.
- You framed our sorrow in beauty and grace. And we were comforted.
- Thank you again for leading us all in my mother’s memorial service. It was really perfect in every way – I don’t think even she would have been able to find any fault with it!
- I can’t imagine a more perfect person to have created and presided over a memorial service for my mom. Your combination of deep intuition, attention to detail, and friendly energy created a moving yet light experience for all of us.
- Thank you for your help with [my wife’s] memorial service. It made me feel very good at a time when good feelings were very scarce.
- You have given us words for death and dying that help us make meaning from our losses.
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